Sometimes its a matter of finding the right hammock. I think I went through about 4 hammocks before I found the "one" that I am totally comfortable in.
That and like other have said....it is a learning curve of knowing how to tweak your gear. Too loos, too tight, wrong hang angles, etc, etc.
I miss my 4.8Lb base weight as a ground dweller...But I sure DON'T MISS the ground.