Here is what I came up with.....
Just a few mods I made. I ended up using my Atlas straps for hanging the hammock from the stand. It works amazing so far. Plus if you're going to hang from a tree too, you may as well get the straps and get double use out of them!
I did order 2 WoopieSling continuous loops for hanging the pole from the stand. They should be in soon. Currently I'm using some rope I had in the garage that can hold up to 190lbs according to the package. Also will swap out the rope for paracord for around the bottom to keep the legs from slipping out from under me!
So far Im very happy with it. Now onto thinking of how to make one thats a bit more portable that could fit in the car. 6' tall for the stand is a bit tall for my Maxima.