Welcome to HF from So. Indiana! As a noob myself, I can't add to the references already cited. I will add that you should review them thoroughly and peruse this site. You will find almost everything you need...plus some wonderful people who will share their experiences with anyone. All they really ask is that you share your own and be respectful. Love the handle, by the way...reminds me of everyone's privilege and responsibilities!
"We have met the enemy, and he is us!" Pogo (1970)
"...if Shug didn't make you do it, then it's Dutch's fault!"