Since the posts/evidence are gone by the will of TeeDee, and based on your previous history as poster and moderator, there is certainly no way I can judge you in any kind of negative light. But others who followed the entire thread maybe can judge either in your favor or TeeDee's. But even on the possibility that your somewhat heated response was somewhat overdone
(and for all I know it was not at all ), it still doesn't seem worthy of the response. Maybe an angry reply, mounting a stout defence to let you know what he thinks of you and your moma. It seems to me that would have been enough. But of course, I'm not TeeDee and can not see it from his angle.
God bless you Tim, you seem to be doing a good job at this site. I hope to meet you someday at a hangout. And I also hope TeeDee is feeling better and will someday join us here again, giving us the benefit of his observations.