Well if it were me, and money were no object... I'd buy one of each kind, test them each rigorously, wright reviews on each one... then choose. Because that would be more fun.
Under Quilts hold their value, so you could recover your cost by selling them here on HF.
But if money were no object...find a friend or two or five to share them with.
To answer your question more directly and I am about the same size as you and also a cold sleeper...my top 3 choices for warm quilts are:
But not necessarily in that order.